I know Ruban very well before his marriage to Sothy. He had been my one of the first batch students in grade six. That scene I still remember. Even now I compare that scene with his last scene. When he paid the visit before his departure his patience attracts everyone in the family. I never heard him speaking harsh words even. The way he treats others is always appreciated. He is a perfect gentleman. Some are born great, some achieve greatness and to some greatness is thrown upon them. In Ruban’s case greatness is thrown upon him! From Sakunthala Parankirinathan(Chinnacca)