Ruban Paattaa, We first met you in 1998. The way you interacted with us being teens, the way you listened to us and later the way you kept in touch with us are lingering in the memories. All of them made you a unique, empathetic, pleasant and thoughtful human being in our hearts. I still remember ammamma proudly saying "அந்தக்காலத்திலேயே படிக்க UKக்கு கப்பல்ல போனவர் ; நல்ல கெட்டிக்காரன்." We will miss you. May your soul rest in peace. Sothy ammamma, Yarlini acca, Stephan anna, Brendan Anna, Tamsin Acca and Kids, You are in our warmest thoughts as you navigate this difficult time and wishing you hope and healing when you’re ready. Stay strong. Take care