I know Ruban very well before his marriage to Sothy, He had been my one of the first batch students in grade 6, that scene I still remember .Even now I compare that scene with his last scene when he paid the visit before his departure. His patience attracts every one in the family. I never heard him speaking harsh words even. The way he treats others is always appreciated. He is a perfect gentleman Some are born great, some achieve greatness and to some greatness is thrown upon them. In Ruban's case greatness is thrown upon him. Rest in Peace, we all miss you Sakunthala (Chinnacca) Parankirinathan