Dear Thilagam mama, You have left an empty place in our hearts. Can not believe that you have left us so soon Thilagam mama. You have been an anchor to the big Stanislaws Arunasalam family. I still remember how you loved us since we were children. Your love for your sister (Amma/Mary Rani) and on us ( her children Haran, Roushini and Luxi ) had been amazing. When we were small during our most difficult times you always uplifted us with your kind words, timely monetary help and had been a great support to our family. You have been a second dad to my brother Haran when he first came to Germany. You have embraced him with loving hands. Your help had tremendously helped all of us to reach where we are today . You have helped us in many ways. You have helped any one who approached you for help. I always remember your kind and beautiful smile. Although I met you in person few years back, but because of your special love for me you came miles to see me. I am so thankful for the love you showered upon us especially your sisters, brothers and on their children. You could uplift any one with your jokes and laughter. what a big loss you have left dear Mama. You will be greatly missed ! Please accept our condolences Gowri Mami, Lavavya, Pras , Rathi & Fabian. May your soul Rest In Peace “ Thilagam mama” We love you Thilagam mama! Dr. Roushini Rajanayagam , United States.