When I received the text message of my favourite Thevi mami passing, my mind was in a tumultuous state with melancholy, anger and despair, trying to accept what has happened and to fathom thegruesome reality that she won't be there for me to wish her on her birthday which I have religiously made as part of my periodic routine. I am sure anyone who had the privilege of having a close rapport or touched by her kindness will agree that she is so giving and has a heart of gold with unhindered innocence which never changed with age since the day I knew her. For me personally, the word gratitude doesn't suffice as a true reflection for what she has done for me and my family. God can be so cruel because he takes the good ones first as he knows that the pure hearts are too precious for this world and being so selfish for taking them to flourish his own kingdom. There are so many beautiful memories still lingers in my mind of her pure unadulterated heart of her kindness, her home was never short of visitors every single day, where they were treated as guests regardless whether you're a family coalesce, consanguinity or conversance. She left me feeling emotionally empty, but her legacy will ever remain with me. I don't think I could ever express any word that will ease the pain of sadness, her children Karthiga Gajavadani, Gopi and their family, and her beloved brother and children. Myself and my family stand by side by joining with you all during this time of grief and distress with the prayers that the mighty God will guide you and give you strength to pull you through this turbulent times. Let her beautiful soul rest in peace. She has decided to live in heaven, but she will always be living in our hearts and thoughts. Your ever loving Bahie, Devahi, and Mrs Pathmarajah